I’m still in the midst of searching for a wedding dress, and honestly, the process is becoming more stressful with each passing day. I really underestimated how challenging finding the right dress would be. While I thought I knew what I wanted, the reality is that what looks good on models online doesn’t really suit my body shape. Let me be clear: I love my body for the most part, but like anyone, I have my insecurities. Being in the spotlight at a wedding reception only amplifies those feelings, and it’s essential for me to feel comfortable.
I’ve tried on countless beautiful dresses, but none of them seem to be the perfect fit. There’s just something missing, and I can’t quite put my finger on it. I’ve even considered the idea of wearing a saree or lehenga instead of a wedding dress. While I worry about potentially regretting not wearing a dress, I also believe that my happiness on my wedding day isn’t dependent on what I wear of course. But it is still important that I feel good on our wedding day.
I’m struggling to figure out what I truly want, and I can’t help but wish I had started looking for dresses sooner. I had no idea I would feel this confused, lost, and frustrated.
I just want to ensure that if I’m going to spend money on a dress, it’s the perfect one for me. I’m not willing to throw away my money on something I’m not completely sure about. Perhaps this uncertainty is just part of the process, and I simply haven’t found ‘the one’ yet or I’m just indecisive. Maybe I’m being too picky, or maybe I have this unrealistic expectation of feeling something magical and being absolutely sure about the dress. It’s hard to say. I’m not sure
Last week, I went to ‘Dreams Do Come True’ in my search for a wedding dress, and I actually found three dresses that I really liked. They’re among my favorites out of all the ones I’ve tried so far. The service there was amazing; she was really kind and patient. However, I’m still unsure whether any of them are ‘the one.’ I’m considering going back to try out my top three choices again next week to see how I feel. As you can probably tell, I’m still feeling a bit lost
